Parent & Child Yoga Posted on August 10, 2018January 18, 2019 by AspireNB Parent – Tot Yoga! Why yoga? Personally, I have experienced how yoga not only decreases my stress & reduces muscle tension, it also provides a space for me to focus on the present moment, my physical body, and its connection (or disconnection) from my mind and heart. Yoga creates a union between our body, mind & soul – and also helps us unite with others. Today, more than ever, I believe children need to experience presence, meditation, and community. The first time I did “yoga time” with my daughter, she said it was the best part of her day. For private family classes, contact me. To try out a general class, you can join me at Gypsy Waltz Yoga. I teach the little gypsies class at 11:00am every Friday. For more information follow the link to the Gypsy Waltz site here.
Calming Ourselves in a Chaotic World Posted on June 24, 2015June 28, 2017 by AspireNB “When all our needs are fulfilled, the brain doesn’t need to focus on survival tasks and feels safe enough to open up to our natural presence and uncover happiness.” -Dr. Elisha Goldstein, PhD. Do you ever feel like you don’t have enough time? That you can never do enough or be “good enough”? Maybe you feel everyone is against you? Do you find yourself yelling at other drivers on the road, or losing patience with your closest friends and family members? Sometimes dealing with life’s everyday stressors can get the best of us, and leave us feeling like some of the examples above. It can happen to everyone – and when we are faced with a world that feels chaotic, we struggle more and more with how to understand and experience stress in a way that does not cause harm to ourselves, or our loved ones. The most tempting way to deal with our feelings is often to numb ourselves – with TV, food, constant distractions, or substances. Numbing can be helpful temporarily, but it’s best to learn to cope with these stressors in a way that will interrupt their negative cycle and create more lasting change in our life. According to Farb et.al’s study Minding one’s emotions: Mindfulness training alters the neural expression of sadness, mindfulness training (MT) has been shown to facilitate both recovery from emotional challenge and increased tolerance of negative affect. Here are a few ways to practice calming yourself: 1. Investigate what types of situations trigger negative emotions or behaviors for you, and why. 2. When you know a stressful time is approaching, make plans to connect with a friend or loved one who lifts you up or makes you laugh. 3. Write down short verses that encourage you to stop and create more awareness for yourself. In her book, Uncovering Happiness, Dr. Goldstein gives examples such as “Breathing in, I am here… Breathing out, I am alive” while taking steps inside, or “Breathing in, I notice the colors all around me… Breathing out, I smile” while outside. Another option is “Breathing in, I wash my hands…. Breathing out, gratitude for these hands”. 4. When you are recovering from stress or a triggering situation, take time to engage in meditation. Below are a few examples to get you started. Dr. Goldstein’s 10 minute body scan Sky Mind Meditation Dr. Goldstein’s Sky of Awareness Meditation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mtsdz_jhB7c For more information regarding counseling services for stress management, anxiety, perfectionism, or other concerns, please see our contact information below. Thanks, Gillian Aspire New Braunfels PLLC 145 Landa Street, New Braunfels, TX 78130 512-501-2597
Aspire Academy Posted on November 27, 2014January 12, 2019 by AspireNB Empowering healers to lead purposeful & balanced lives. Continuing education group series for Professional Counselors, Social Workers, Marriage & Family Therapists and Interns Learn new self-care strategies for your clients through experiential exercises CEU’s offered for LPC, LMFT, and LCSW Put your own oxygen mask on first and lead by example! While our families, clients and communities really need us to put ourselves first, we are often the last “task” on our to-do lists. Taking time in a purposeful way empowers you to set & achieve meaningful goals. By learning how to better care for yourself, you gain energy to provide a healthy environment for yourself, your family, the teams you lead, and your community. This group is for all healing professionals, whether you have many years of experience in your field, or are an intern transitioning from school to professional life. The Academy will be a purposeful & safe space to assess personal strengths, gain support from like-minded professionals, and create meaningful goals. In addition, you will learn or practice CEU’s related to… Defining work-life balance Accepting support & requesting feedback from your peers Self-care skills Meditation & relaxation exercises Healthy communication strategies Boundary setting Articulating & fulfilling individual needs Feeling more empowered in your life This group session will meet on Wednesday evenings, once a month for 6 months. Our next group begins in February 2019 and will run from February 2019-July 2019. Fee is $65/session ($390 for all 6 sessions) Please call to reserve your spot and/or ask questions In summary, this group is for you if… You want change or challenge Your want guidance in building a heart-led career You are a healer/helper who wants more balance & clarity You are busy, overwhelmed, or overstressed You want a safe & supportive professional group To sign up or ask more questions, please contact Gillian in the following ways: Phone: 512-501-2597 Email: amaro@aspireNB.com