Mastering your Morning

There are countless research studies to support the claim that, if you master your morning, you master your day.

The morning process I developed for myself combines 5 key areas. This process can be quick- a total of 5 minutes, or it can take much longer. It all depends on the amount of time you wish to set aside. Deciding how much time you want to devote to this practice is a powerful first step to a morning routine you ENJOY. A morning process will not work if it is not helpful or enjoyable, and you can definitely get as much benefit from 5 minutes as you can from 50 minutes.

My biggest tip is to do your morning process BEFORE you pick up your phone or open your computer. This process will still help you to rebound from the “noise” if you forget, but beginning the day with your morning process ensures that you listen to your own voice and inner wisdom first. It gives you the opportunity to decide how you want to show up, providing a powerful foundation for your day.

5 Key Ingredients to a Good Morning

  1. 1. BODY: how does your body feel waking up today? How much energy do you have? BONUS: Do you feel strength, or tension, connection or disconnection with your body? How can you acknowledge your body, and your needs, before the day begins?

  1. 2. INSPIRATION: State one thing you are grateful for, right now. This directs our brain to find positivity & creativity & creativity in our day, as opposed to negativity & scarcity. BONUS: Read something positive! This could be one line or one chapter from a book, or a daily devotional that is inspiring to you.

  1. 3. PRAY: Prayer or meditation can help you to synthesize the inspiration you just took in, and integrate it within your body before the day begins. Again, this can be a short 10 second prayer or a 10 minute meditation: your choice!

  1. 4. INTENTION: Set an intention for your day, based on what you NEED today & the state you woke up in (#1), the inspiration you received through your reading & prayer (#2 & 3), and the goals & vision you are working towards in general. Thinking of all these categories, what 1-5 words define your intention for the day? Some examples of popular intentions include: “focus”, “clarify”, “slow down”, “set my boundaries with others”, “don’t work past 6”, “connect with others” or “remember I am powerful”.

  1. 5. MOVE! This can as simple as doing 2 pushups, or as intense as a 45 minute sweat session. The important thing is to get a little adrenaline going, signaling that it is now time to begin your day!

The Season for Self-Care

40 Self-Care ideas to help you through the holidays

‘Tis the season… for self-care!

 

Holidays can be stressful even when you are excited about all of the festivities, so it should come as no surprise that if you are going through any type of difficulty or crisis, the holiday season will likely be complicated. Many people are struggling with hidden grief, illness, depression, anxiety, financial difficulties, or just increased stress in general.

It is normal to feel sad or angry about memories related to the holidays, or to feel triggered by familiar routines, songs, and gatherings that you “should” be enjoying.  You might notice tension, dread, or even feel numb, as if you are operating on autopilot. It is important not to guilt or shame ourselves about these feelings but rather acknowledge them, and place a higher importance on caring for ourselves, first. Don’t worry- your ability to care for others will return, but balancing your own system takes priority.

 

 

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40 ways to begin caring for yourself this season

  1. Check in with your current feelings, and determine what your biggest need is (use the wiseheart worksheet here)

  2. Take a walk outside.

  3. Stretch or practice yoga.

  4. Try a meditation- the Headspace app is a great place to start.

  5. Take a photo of something that makes you smile (bonus if you use that picture as your screensaver on your phone or computer).

  6. Hug yourself or someone you love for at least 1 minute.

  7. Light a candle and breathe deeply. If negative thoughts arise, acknowledge them, then let them go.

  8. Make a list of people you can call if you’re having a rough day – or moment. (BONUS: CALL ONE!)

  9. LAUGH

  10. Listen to a positive playlist, or make one of your own.

  11. Read a new book (BONUS: read an uplifting, spiritual, or motivating book)

  12. Pet an animal

  13. Smile at a stranger

  14. Play a fun board game

  15. Dance with reckless abandon

  16. Set a healthy boundary

  17. State a need you have out loud

  18. Create a gratitude journal entry

  19. Add one healthy ritual into your daily life

  20. Sing loudly without caring who hears you

  21. Visit a place you have never been to before

  22. Garden or get your hands in some dirt

  23. Eat a healthy, veggie-rich meal

  24. Drink 1/2 your body weight in ounces today (so if you are 120 lbs, drink at least 60 oz of water)

  25. Paint, draw, build, color – allow yourself to be creative for at least 5 minutes

  26. Organize one area in your living space

  27. Find one way to give to others that also brings YOU joy – and do it

  28. Watch a comedy

  29. Breathe deeply while reciting a prayer or positive mantra

  30. Schedule at least 5 minutes of spontaneous play into your day

  31. Try one new thing and don’t think about it or plan it too much

  32. Ask for help even if its with something small

  33. Think about what you’re especially good at, and do it today

  34. Take care of a nagging task that keeps getting ignored

  35. Curl up with a blanket and drink a cup of hot lemon water or tea

  36. Give some purposeful attention to something you usually ignore

  37. Cook or bake a favorite meal/treat

  38. Watch the sunrise or sunset

  39. Write a letter to someone you are thankful for

  40. Do nothing and cross this number off just because you deserve it

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This list is meant to help you begin a self-care routine, and I encourage you to start with this list, note which activities refresh you the most, and add more ideas as you go. It is also important to remember that holiday celebrations can be changed in any way we wish them to be; we only need to take time to decide what those changes look like to us, and communicate those with friends and loved ones.

In addition, while self-care is a great start, if you have experienced trauma, grief, or are spending much of your time feeling worried or sad, counseling is an important way to filter out what you need most, and gain coping skills for your specific situation.

For more information on self-care basics, click here. 

Want to join me for FREE parent & tot yoga this holiday season? Click here for more details

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Gillian Amaro, LPC-S

I believe that we, as individuals, can create joy, love, and purpose in our lives through authentic connection. I love empowering women, couples & teens to find insight as they balance their bodies, minds & hearts. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor & Supervisor and I  offer individual, family & couples sessions, as well as group therapy. My passion for counseling & healthy communication includes stepping out of the office to facilitate workshops and CEU trainings.

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Building Boundaries

A supportive group for women interested in setting healthy boundaries.

 

If you are a nurturer, a perfectionist, a workaholic, or a peacemaker, this group may be for you!

You might be thinking, I’ve heard that word before. But, what really IS a boundary?!

“A boundary is anything that helps to differentiate you from someone else or shows where you begin and end”  (Cloud & Townsend, p. 35).

 

In this group, we will explore our personalities, and learn basic boundary skills.

This group is part support group, part psycho-education, and part book club. In my experience, most of the women I know have difficulty setting boundaries in one way or another. Together, we will learn what boundaries are, as well as when, where, and how they can happen, and the importance of setting boundaries. We will also explore our own needs and feelings around boundaries, supporting each other along the way.

We will use the book “Boundaries” by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend. Group sessions will follow this book in a purposeful manner, and will also include:

Supportive & experiential group activities

Accepting support & requesting feedback from your peers

Meditation & relaxation exercises

Healthy communication strategies

 

SPRING 2019 Schedule:    

We will begin in February 2019 and end in November 2019.

Groups will meet once a month, on Wednesday afternoons

Group will meet for 10 months (10 sessions total)

We will begin in February 2019 and end in November 2019.

The cost is $50 per 2 hour session ($500 for all 10 months)

Moms of New Braunfels discount accepted for all new/first-time members.

 

To sign up or ask questions,

please contact Gillian Amaro, M.Ed, LPC: 512-501-2597

 

Still unsure? Here are a few more excerpts from the book, regarding how boundaries affect us:

  • “Each of us has different desires and wants, dreams and wishes, goals and plans, hungers and thirsts- but few of us are satisfied. One reason is that we lack the internal structure that boundaries provide to enable us to define and then take the specific steps necessary to reach our goals.” (p. 48-49)

  • “We need to claim our hearts as our property and work on weaknesses, whether we are weak receiving, or weak giving, love. Doing so will open up life to us.” (p. 49-50)

  • “Feelings, attitudes and beliefs, behaviors, choices, values, limits, talents, thoughts, desires, and love – all of these lie within our boundaries. We therefore need to take responsibility for all of these areas of our souls.”

What is Self-Care, Anyway?

Self-care has been getting more press lately, but it still might sound confusing. The definition of self-care, according to Christine Meinecke, Ph.D, is “choosing behaviors that balance the effects of emotional and physical stressors.”

Self-care is important for everyone, and a pre-requisite for connecting in a meaningful way. If you are a healer of any kind (mothering, fathering, teaching and caregiving definitely count!) it is important to be more purposeful about your own self-care, especially if you feel you lack the time. Self-care is the first step to standing your sacred ground, and creating better, more empowered connections in – and outside of – your work.

Here are 4 helpful areas to keep in mind when adding a self-care routine into your life:

  1. 1) Write down 5 reasons to care for YOU, EVEN WHEN _______________. In other words, what makes YOU unique, helpful, inspiring? When you are at your best, in your “zone” what do you look like? These will be great reminders for why self-care rituals & breaks are important; even when ________ (meetings, state tests, playoffs, deadlines, etc…)

  2. 2) Begin to pay attention to when you need more self-care, and what those signs are. What do you look like, sound like, feel like when you need more self-care (this is your “shadow self”; the traits you might hate to admit you have, but that are there -just simply part of being a human!).

  3. 3) Find your team. It is important to know who is in your inner circle, who you can count on to be on your self-care team. Whether they are family or friends, these are YOUR people, who you can count on when you are stuck.  Aim for at least 3-5, and write their phone numbers down too.

  4. 4) Try lots of different types of self-care, and find what works best for you. When you find things that work well, make a note of what they are- and ideally, schedule them in your calendar!

Want ideas? Here are several healthy self-care options:

  • Eating healthfully

  • Box Breathing

  • Exercise

  • Getting enough sleep

  • Acknowledging our needs

  • Setting healthy boundaries

  • Making a plan for a goal

  • Grounding yourself in the present moment

  • Connecting with others

  • Listening to uplifting music

  • Laughing

  • Playing games with friends

  • Saying no to extra requests

  • Counseling

  • Understanding needs you might have at work, and how to create rituals in your day to meet those needs

  • Leaving work at work

  • Spending time outside

  • Scheduling the week ahead on Sunday mornings

  • Reading for fun

  • Gardening

  • Dancing

  • Watching a funny movie with a friend

  • Singing

  • Cooking

  • Baking

  • Joining a support group

  • Taking a trip/vacation

  • Getting a massage

  • Watching a sunset

  • Playing an instrument

  • Meditation & prayer

  • Petting an animal

  • Lighting candles

  • Smiling

  • Assess your SUDS

  • Do your chores (yes, really!)

  • Keeping letters & notes from former bosses or employees to remind you of your strengths

Thanks for reading!

-Gillian

 

 

 

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Gillian Amaro, LPC-S

I believe that we, as individuals, can create joy, love, and purpose in our lives through authentic connection. I love empowering women, couples & teens to feel comfortable with who they are & gain insight about how they connect with others. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor & Supervisor and offer individual, family & couples sessions, as well as group therapy. My passion for counseling & healthy communication includes stepping out of the office to facilitate workshops and CEU trainings.

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392 W. Mill St. New Braunfels, TX 78130

www.aspireNB.com

Facebook: @AspireNewBraunfels

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Empowered Mothering Series

Coming Soon!

Empowered Mothering Series at the New Braunfels Library

*FREE* 2 part workshop series

I am thrilled to host an upcoming series at the New Braunfels Library JUST FOR MOMS!

As a counselor, wife & mother of 2, I definitely know the importance of self-care! This 2-part series will help you to better understand yourself, acknowledge & reduce your stress, learn new coping skills, and increase healthy communication- with your partner, your family & your children.

This is a great opportunity to not only learn skills that will improve your emotional health, but experience & practice them.

See below for more information!

WHO: Any mother or female guardian of a child – and moms to be!

WHAT: Self-care (June) & healthy communication (July)

WHERE: New Braunfels Public Library

WHEN: One hour sessions on Tuesday, June 5th  & Tuesday, July 10th at 6 PM

COST: FREE!!!

 

Goals of June workshop (self-care) include:

  1. Learn the definition of self-care & at least one sign that you need more of it
  2. Learn how to assess your SUDS or “resting stress rate”
  3. Learn 3 simple ways to de-stress
  4. Experience short, relaxing guided imagery/meditation
  5. Name one person who can be part of your future self-care “team”

Goals of July workshop (healthy communication) include: 

  1. Learn how to assess your own feelings & needs authentically
  2. Experience what setting a boundary feels like
  3. Learn 3 basics of boundary setting
  4. Learn new ways to state your needs, without hurting loved ones
  5. Experience short, relaxing guided imagery/meditation

Part 1:

Tuesday, June 5, 2018 at 6PM (self-care)

Part 2: 

Tuesday, July 10, 2018 at 6PM (healthy communication)

Both sessions will last one hour.

NOTE: Unfortunately, there will not be childcare available for these sessions.

 

If you have any questions, please contact:

Gillian Amaro, LPC-S

512-501-2597

amaro@aspireNB.com

 

 

 

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Gillian Amaro, LPC-S

I believe that we, as individuals, can create joy, love, and purpose in our lives through authentic connection. I love empowering women, couples & teens to feel comfortable with who they are & gain insight about how they connect with others. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor & Supervisor and offer individual, family & couples sessions, as well as group therapy. My passion for counseling & healthy communication includes stepping out of the office to facilitate workshops and CEU trainings.

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392 W. Mill St. New Braunfels, TX 78130

www.aspireNB.com

Facebook: @AspireNewBraunfels

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The Benefits of Joining a Group

“My dad encouraged us to fail. Growing up, he would ask us what we failed at that week. If we didn’t have something, he would be disappointed. It changed my mindset at an early age that failure is not the outcome, failure is not trying. 

Don’t be afraid to fail.”

-Sara Blakely, founder of Spanx

 

 

When we are kids, we are constantly trying new things, asking questions, and excitedly taking in the world just as we see it with no fears of making mistakes or looking silly. Not wasting time thinking about failing, being vulnerable or embarrassed. And then we change. We usually can’t pinpoint the specific moment when we became worried about being vulnerable, we just know that all of a sudden, it begins to steal our energy. After reading Brene Brown’s book Daring Greatly, I realized even more so how being vulnerable is a key component in enjoying and getting the most out of your life.

Vulnerability is one of the biggest reasons people hesitate to join a group. If you happen to know that change is more likely in a group setting, this probably makes sense to you. The human brain likes to understand, to reflect, to question & be challenged, but humans don’t always like the process of change. In fact, sometimes it is downright uncomfortable! But hey, its better than being bored, right? 😉

If you are just finding me, you may see that I offer several groups. This is in part, because people seem to like them! But mostly, because I believe in them! Personally, I am a member of several counseling, consultation, networking and supervision groups. I even exercise with a group, because it keeps me more consistent, accountable, challenged, and happy!

If you are unsure about joining a group, here are a few reasons why groups are beneficial!

 

1. You realize you are not alone!

“Shame needs 3 things to grow exponentially. Secrecy, silence & judgement. The antidote is empathy. Talk to someone you love, reach out to someone you trust, tell your story.”

 

Because anxiety & depression are directly related to shame, keeping our past trauma, regrets and true feelings inside are the very things that will make it more difficult to “show up” every day. Being part of a group means that you will not only get to tell your story, but hear from others, and gain support in knowing you are not alone.

 

2 . Time to think

We all get busy and seldom schedule purposeful time to reflect on our lives. Support groups can provide a designated, safe space to voice your inner thoughts, question what your best self might look like, and challenge yourself in new ways. When I plan group sessions, I always make sure to include individual activities that encourage reflection. As a bonus, you also get constructive feedback, insight, encouragement, and support!

 

3. Motivation

When you are part of a group, you meet several others who hear your goals – and can encourage you to stay motivated to reach them. Many times, the group setting can give more natural encouragement, motivation, and advice than could ever happen in an individual counseling appointment.

 

4. Coping Skills

Learn new coping skills in an environment where it is safe to practice them! The hardest part of learning a new skill is mastery; getting enough practice to truly feel confident in using it. A support group is a great place to practice using those newfound coping skills and boundaries, and getting helpful feedback from your peers.

 

5. Growth!!

Most of my groups are not centered around a specific problem; instead they are centered around growth, so if you have never been to counseling before, or if you don’t feel you need counseling, one of my support groups can definitely be the place for you! Like a personal training group for your physical wellness, a support group can be a place to set personal goals that you have never been able to achieve on your own!

 

Humans are naturally social beings, even if we need time alone to recharge. How can you connect with others differently, challenge yourself in new ways, see things in a new light?

Sometimes the biggest reward is in how you feel when you are being vulnerable, even it means failing…  failing energetically, creating space for growth & new opportunities!

Click here for more information on the groups I offer.

 

-Gillian

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Gillian Amaro, LPC-S

I believe that we, as individuals, can create joy, love, and purpose in our lives through authentic connection. I love empowering women, couples & teens to feel comfortable with who they are & gain insight about how they connect with others. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor & Supervisor and offer individual, family & couples sessions, as well as group therapy. My passion for counseling & healthy communication includes stepping out of the office to facilitate workshops and CEU trainings.

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392 W. Mill St. New Braunfels, TX 78130

www.aspireNB.com

Facebook: @AspireNewBraunfels

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Your brain & exercise

I’ve always known that exercise is important, but I recently read through The Upward Spiral by Alex Korb, PhD and was happy to find even more research support for it.  The Upward Spiral discusses using neuroscience to reverse the course of depression, one small change at a time – with one of those being exercise.

I want to clarify that “exercise” doesn’t have to mean working out like Rocky every day of the week. It simply means MOVING YOUR BODY. This can include throwing a baseball in the backyard, taking your dog for a walk, dancing to music in your kitchen, chasing your toddler into the next room, or even cleaning the house!

As always, I encourage you to start where you are and focus on your progress. Maybe when you begin, you are very tired, and the dishes are your exercise. Put on some music, and let yourself move a little extra. The next day, maybe you feel better after the dishes are done, and continue dancing – or take a walk around the block. Start small, but be consistent! Some type of movement every day helps!

Alex Korb said in The Upward Spiral that “your brain does not like being idle; it comes with a body, and it wants to use it.” Here are 5 great (brain researched) reasons to get out and run, walk, or dance – listed in his book.

  1. The Natural Antidepressant.
    • “Exercise is possibly the most straightforward and powerful way to start an upward spiral. Not only is it easy to understand, but exercise also has many of the same effects on the brain as antidepressant medications and even mimics the buzz of recreational drugs. Yet exercise is natural, it causes more nuanced and targeted brain changes, and its benefits can exceed even those of medication.” -Alex Korb, Ph.D.
  2. Better sleep.
    • “Depression often messes up your sleep patterns, but exercise improves your sleep, making it more restorative for your brain.” -Alex Korb, Ph.D.
  3. A Stronger Brain.
    • Exercise increases nerve growth factors, such as brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), which are like steroids for your brain. BDNF makes your brain stronger, so it’s  more resistant to all kinds of problems, not just depression.” -Alex Korb, Ph.D.
  4. Better Concentration
    • “Exercise increases norepinephrine” which helps increase concentration and deep thinking. -Alex Korb, Ph.D.
  5. Motivation and Better Decision Making
    • “The orbitofrontal cortex influences motivation and decision making. The dorsolateral prefrontal cortex helps with planning and thinking. The insula modulates pain perception. And the anterior cingulate guides your focus. Amazingly, endorphin signaling in all of these areas is improved by exercise.”  -Alex Korb, Ph.D.

To really boost the effects of exercise, try one of the following:

  1. Be purposeful.
    • Make a specific goal for how you want to move- and stick to it. Better yet – make it a “SMART” goal; specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timely. In addition, PLAN for obstacles. What is the most likely obstacle to this goal? Make a plan for what you when that obstacle happens AHEAD of time, so you don’t have to think about it in the moment. There are always obstacles in life, so planning for them ahead of time can feel very empowering and energizing.
  2. Get out!
    • Instead of going to a gym, choose a local trail or park to run or walk in. Even if there’s not a pretty view where you run, just running outside has more mood-boosting benefits than the gym or treadmill.
  3. Team Up.
    • This is probably the most important piece! Join a supportive exercise group or gym, partner with a personal trainer, or ask a friend to commit to your exercise plan with you. This helps you stick to your goal – and the socialization also improves your brain’s health.
    • “Humans are a social species- we evolved to survive with each other, and our brains are healthiest when we interact with and feel connected to others” -Alex Korb, PhD., The Upward Spiral 
  4. Add music.
    • Make a playlist of positive songs that you can listen to during exercise.
    • “Music engages most of the limbic system, including the hippocampus, anterior cingulate, and nucleus accumbens, which is why it can be motivating and can help regulate your emotions. It can also be soothing, lowering blood pressure and reducing stress.” Alex Korb, Ph.D, The Upward Spiral
  5. Say thank you!
    • Make a practice of being grateful for your body’s ability to move- and practice saying it every time you move!

I hope this has inspired you to get out there and move! If you would like to learn more about the brain and how it is affected by depression and anxiety, please read The Upward Spiral by Alex Korb, Ph.D.

-Gillian

 

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Gillian Amaro, LPC-S

I believe that we, as individuals, can create joy, love, and purpose in our lives through authentic connection. I love empowering women, couples & teens to feel comfortable with who they are & gain insight about how they connect with others. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor & Supervisor and offer individual, family & couples sessions, as well as group therapy. My passion for counseling & healthy communication includes stepping out of the office to facilitate workshops and CEU trainings.

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392 W. Mill St. New Braunfels, TX 78130

www.aspireNB.com

Facebook: @AspireNewBraunfels

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Calming Ourselves in a Chaotic World

“When all our needs are fulfilled, the brain doesn’t need to focus on survival tasks and feels safe enough to open up to our natural presence and uncover happiness.”

-Dr. Elisha Goldstein, PhD.

Do you ever feel like you don’t have enough time?  That you can never do enough or be “good enough”? Maybe you feel everyone is against you? Do you find yourself yelling at other drivers on the road, or losing patience with your closest friends and family members?

Sometimes dealing with life’s everyday stressors can get the best of us, and leave us feeling like some of the examples above. It can happen to everyone – and when we are faced with a world that feels chaotic, we struggle more and more with how to understand and experience stress in a way that  does not cause harm to ourselves, or our loved ones.

The most tempting way to deal with our feelings is often to numb ourselves – with TV, food, constant distractions, or substances.  Numbing can be helpful temporarily, but it’s best to learn to cope with these stressors in a way that will interrupt their negative cycle and create more lasting change in our life.

According to Farb et.al’s study Minding one’s emotions: Mindfulness training alters the neural expression of sadness, mindfulness training (MT) has been shown to facilitate both recovery from emotional challenge and increased tolerance of negative affect.

Here are a few ways to practice calming yourself:

1. Investigate what types of situations trigger negative emotions or behaviors for you, and why.

2. When you know a stressful time is approaching, make plans to connect with a friend or loved one who lifts you up or makes you laugh.

3. Write down short verses that encourage you to stop and create more awareness for yourself. In her book, Uncovering Happiness, Dr. Goldstein gives examples such as “Breathing in, I am here… Breathing out, I am alive” while taking steps inside, or “Breathing in, I notice the colors all around me… Breathing out, I smile” while outside. Another option is “Breathing in, I wash my hands…. Breathing out, gratitude for these hands”.

4. When you are recovering from stress or a triggering situation, take time to engage in meditation. Below are a few examples to get you started.

Dr. Goldstein’s 10 minute body scan

Sky Mind Meditation

Dr. Goldstein’s Sky of Awareness Meditation

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mtsdz_jhB7c

For more information regarding counseling services for stress management, anxiety, perfectionism, or other concerns, please see our contact information below.

Thanks,
Gillian

Aspire New Braunfels PLLC

145 Landa Street, New Braunfels, TX 78130

512-501-2597

High School Powerhaus

 

High School Powerhaus: A Supportive group for high school students

In high school, there are so many decisions to make, peer pressures to avoid, and family expectations to uphold.  If you are a high school student who feels overwhelmed at times from expectations from school, family, friends & activities, this group is for you!

Sometimes, it seems no one understands the pressures that high school can bring, except other high school students. This group allows high schoolers to talk, vent, and support each other, taking time away from outside opinions, and learning what you truly like & need in your life.

Group goals include:

  • Purposefully choosing decisions for myself & my future

  • Successfully managing school assignments, tasks, & expectations

  • Finding positive ways to cope with stress

  • Balancing activities, family, friends, school & work

  • Increasing positive communication with parents regarding your feelings & needs

  • Boundary setting

  • Goal setting

  • Meditation & Relaxation Exercises

  • Meeting like-minded high school students

  • Accepting support & requesting feedback from HS peers in a safe environment

  • Laughing

This group meets once a month on Monday evenings.

Cost: $40/session

This will be a closed group, meaning that once we begin a series, I will not let anyone new into the group. This allows for higher levels of confidentiality and safety. I keep groups small, with  no more than 6 participants per group, so that I can easily attend to each member’s needs.

For specific dates & times, questions, or to reserve your space, please contact Gillian Amaro, M.Ed., LPC at 512-501-2597.

Aspire Academy

Empowering healers

to lead purposeful & balanced lives.

Continuing education group series for Professional Counselors, Social Workers, Marriage & Family Therapists and Interns

Learn new self-care strategies for your clients through experiential exercises

CEU’s offered for LPC,  LMFT, and LCSW

Put your own oxygen mask on first and lead by example! While our families, clients and communities really need us to put ourselves first, we are often the last “task” on our to-do lists. Taking time in a purposeful way empowers you to set & achieve meaningful goals. By learning how to better care for yourself, you gain energy to provide a healthy environment for yourself, your family, the teams you lead, and your community.

This group is for all healing professionals, whether you have many years of experience in your field, or are an intern transitioning from school to professional life. The Academy will be a purposeful & safe space to assess personal strengths, gain support from like-minded professionals, and create meaningful goals.

In addition, you will learn or practice CEU’s related to…

Defining work-life balance

Accepting support & requesting feedback from your peers

Self-care skills

Meditation & relaxation exercises

Healthy communication strategies

Boundary setting

Articulating & fulfilling individual needs

Feeling more empowered in your life

This group session will meet on Wednesday evenings, once a month for 6  months.

Our next group begins in February 2019 and will run from February 2019-July 2019.

Fee is $65/session ($390 for all 6 sessions)

Please call to reserve your spot and/or ask questions

In summary, this group is for you if…

You want change or challenge

Your want guidance in building a heart-led career

You are a healer/helper who wants more balance & clarity

You are busy, overwhelmed, or overstressed

You want a safe & supportive professional group

To sign up or ask more questions,

please contact Gillian in the following ways:

Phone: 512-501-2597

Email: amaro@aspireNB.com